23 June: THANK YOU TO EVERYONE FOR BIRTHDAY MESSAGES FOR BOTH SOL AND MYSELF! MY LAPTOP FINALLY DIED AND IT'S HARD FINDING SOMEWHERE WHERE I CAN ACCESS MDS IN PUBLIC, BUT WE WILL BOTH BE BACK SOON ... AND THE NEW PLACE WE ARE LIVING IS MAGICAL!
**SORRY TO BE AWAY SO LONG, SOLIPSIST AND I ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF MOVING 500 MILES AND STARTING NEW JOBS, BUT WE WILL BOTH BE BACK FULL TIME SOON. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR MESSAGES!**
My interests and desires as a real time and online Mistress are diverse and eclectic, pushing the boundaries of BDSM. I share my life with my husband of many years solipsist; you can read of our explorations in our D/s relationship on our blog Mistress160's Abode.
I am always looking for ways to increase my experience and expertise, establishing dialogue and exchanging knowledge with a wide range of BDSM and kinky communities, from Dom/mes to the wives / partners of submissives who desire to achieve greater understanding of D/s.
I enjoy documenting alternative cultures and art inspired by fetish, and post about these topics on Kink Culture. I am also a regular contributor to " Kink-E Magazine": recent articles include a tribute to fetish photographer Noel Graydon, reviews of artists Lukas Zpira and Satomi, plus "Cyber Reality" and "Aftercare".
My interests in BDSM education are expressed via my blog (with its popular BDSM For Beginners series - this series can now be found on it's own blog ) and via administering / moderating sites such as:
Fetish Lore (a forum for kinksters who feel outside the box)
My Dungeon Space (where I help moderate the forum and also run the Forced Feminization, Friends of Friends and Kinky Style groups, as well as my latest 2008 group The Hunt.
I also moderate a private Mistress forum. Any Dommes who would like to join the latter - or female subs interested in FSSP - please drop me a line.
SUBS WISHING TO CONTACT ME:
I always enjoy correspondence with sincere subs of all genders.
If you wish to apply to serve:
Please respect that I am very happy in my D/s marriage to solipsist and am not seeking a 24/7 relationship with anyone else. While I maintain a small sub + RT stable for casual play, at the moment I am only accepting applications from subs willing to join my waiting list. Details as to how I prefer applications to be structured can be found on my blog . With respect, I am very unlikely to respond to correspondence featuring explicit genital pix (including avatars), messages of the "i hav webcam" / "can i serve u" variety or form letters.
FRIENDS REQUESTS:
I am rather old fashioned and prefer to know the people I become friends with.
I am delighted to accept friends requests from people I know. If we have not met yet, let's get to know each other a little first via exchanges on the forum, comments, chat etc. Or send me a message about it - don't forget to let me know if I know you under another name on another site or in real time.
If you have sent me a friends request and not heard back from me, you might like to read my "Becoming Friends" (Feb 2007) blog.
GUESTBOOK:
I love hearing from everyone, but would be most grateful if you'd only leave messages with text content as the HTML function is off.
Thank you!
Turn ons
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
Perfectly symmetrical cane cuts...
Planning complex scenes for my subs...
Writing them up in my blog afterwards...
The deep warmth of well spanked buttocks...
The little noise / whimper solipsist makes after being gently humiliated...
The swish of my favorite cane (seen in my avatar)...
The pleasure of having privacy for outdoor scenes, such as animal play or the hunt...
The way my online sub bimbo used the word BLUSH in chat / play...
Pain...
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
My scarlet suede boots...
Extending the moment before I strike...
Clover clamps pulled tight on nipples, their chain taut in my fingers...
The embarrassed, humiliated "can't believe I am doing this" look Ms160sSecretPet gives me on cam after I've just given instructions for play...
Judging photo contests in my Forced Feminization group here at MDS....
Strap-ons...
Running my fingertips over raised welts...
Watching solipsist take off his garter belt and stockings...
The scent of the perfume I only wear for play (Chanel's Cuir de Russie)...
Smooth, hairless balls in a ball stretcher...
The moment after the drop of wax falls from the candle, before it lands on skin...
Watching Fetish Diva Midori deliver a sensuous deerskin flogging...
bimbo's conversations when she's been drinking expensive Australian red wine...
Otter's fur...
The soft black leather of my opera gloves, fingertips removed so as not to reduce sensation...
A well trained sub, kneeling, waiting...
Turn offs
Discourtesy
Which, with respect, includes:
- Friends requests from people who have not read the related info on my profile (see above)
- Requests to serve from subs, who have not read the related info on my profile (see above)
- Form letters from subs
- Letters not addressed to me by name
- Correspondents who are rude to, or who do not bother to thank, the sub who handles my unsolicited mail
As one of my hobbies is CBT I thought you might like to view this You Tube montage of some of my favorite CBT moments. More photos from these BDSM scenes can be viewed in my Gallery. Videos of my scenes can be found on my blog.
(music: from "The English Patient" soundtrack)
Activities
24/7 (Total Power Exchange), Arse (Ass) Play, Blindfolds, Bondage, Branding, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Candle Wax, Chastity Devices, Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads, Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc., Collar and Lead/Leash, Cross Dressing, Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons), Discipline, Domination/submission, Edgeplay, Electrotorture (EMS TENS units), Feminization, Floggers/Cats, High Heels, Humiliation, Knife/Needle Play, Lace/Lingerie, Leather, Massage, Oral Sex (Receiving), Pain, Pantyhose/Stockings, Participating in Erotic Photography, Pet Play, Piercings, Play Piercing, Power Exchange, Sadism, Sissification, Spanking/Paddling, Suspensions, Toys, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Vibrators, Whips
